In this generation, especially in the Philippines, you are pressured to have a relationship or get married if you are above 30 years old and if you don’t, you will be labeled as an “old maid” or a “spinster”. This is one of the reasons why a lot of girls are having doubt in their self-worth if they don’t have a boyfriend.
In fact, studies show that women who are having a hard time finding a boyfriend are the ones that are smart. The Yale University also conducted an experiment finding out that women have exceeded men in their number of higher education graduates.
This only means that a lot of women are busy honing their crafts or skills that look for a boyfriend. Decades of research also show unequivocally that men and women are equal in general intelligence (IQ), but that isn’t the case when it comes to emotional intelligence (EQ).
They say that women are ahead of men when it comes to emotional intelligence and I guess you would agree on this. This means that women are emotionally more independent.
Experts say that “Your IQ and your relationship status are interrelated so being single means you’re actually ‘too smart’ to attract the opposite sex.
Single women also are the ones that well-versed and amusing because they can do things by themselves without having the help of a man.
They are also less stressed because having no boyfriend means you have more time to pay attention to yourself and know what you truly love without the influence of a man or another person.
If you are a woman and you’re reading this, we hope that with the above reasons you are now confident in yourself despite not having a boyfriend in this point of life. We all have a unique life story to tell and remember that love is a special thing and it should not be rushed just because of the social stigma.